My daughter died a little over a month ago and most of the time all I’m thinking about is my body. Yup, I said it and it makes me feel selfish and horrible. I may hear a song on the radio and get weepy-eyed in the middle of the day, or I’ll see a new baby and want to run away and hide, but for the rest of the day I’m thinking about my body. I want it back. I…
The first night in the hospital is somewhat of a blur to me. We arrived around 11 PM after a three hour drive from home. I was tired and scared. Logan was finally asleep so I left him and Travis in the car while I figured out where we needed to go. I had to check in at the Emergency Department because the front doors of the hospital were locked and no one seemed to understand why I was there. I…
My pregnancy with Ava was difficult from the start. Less than 24 hours after we found out I was pregnant I had some bleeding. We were expecting a miscarriage but nothing more happened and I never bled again. I had an ultrasound a few days later and we confirmed there was a single live fetus in my uterus. We were overjoyed but still nervous as there was no explanation for my bleeding. I had more severe nausea and insomnia but…
We were pretty shocked when we found out I was pregnant again. I mean it wasn’t a surprise in the sense that it was unplanned. We knew exactly what we were doing. Logan had just turned one and he was such an amazing kid we thought, “hey, lets do it again.” I was still breastfeeding meaning my cycle was still non-existent/irregular, so we decided to do what we called “whatevering.” Basically our version of saying we wanted to try for…